Even the best plans fail at the last moment. Life is Uncertain, and unexpected things will always knock on the door.
Try to remember the last time, when something totally different happened as per your perception, or the time your mind plan didn't work out? You were prepared for something, that didn't even exits. It can be something big, or just a canceled Goa plan. Can you recall? Can you relate?
Why go big? Let's be a little relatable, a little grounded. Everybody has something in the head when any special event is approaching, let's say your birthday. But do things ever happen like that? I don't think so. No matter if you even planned every second of it. I found people talking about their flop plans or better-executed plans, the former one's complaining, "That is the reason when we think a lot nothing falls at the place" and the latter ones saying,"I didn't think of it at all and see everything went well"
Okay! So the matter is about thinking?
Well, No. Then? Is it about Expectations?
I think it's about, picturing or making a guess about the future. The curiosity. The impatience. But then that's natural, we ought to make stories in our head, for the sake of being prepared? OKAY! I remember Prevention is better than cure. For making a wild guess? How Wild? ;)
It is the fear of something that must not happen, which makes us take the entire journey, from our past experiences - to our friend's sister's best friend's past experiences-to all our Google searches-to an article you once read and what not? Which finally ends up to our instincts. And we tend to say, "Bas sab acha hi ho"
What is the point of mentioning all the things? SEE What GOOGLE says about OVERTHINKING.
All it says is STOP!
HOW? I won't tell you 13 Simple ways to stop Thinking, but just one thing.
YOU NEVER KNOW.
So Why to think? Why put ample of energy and time to a wrong place? Why not have a cup of coffee, a fantastic movie, or your favourite sport.
Do Not Stress over anything, because you never know, where the next moment might take you to. To an absolutely wonderful outing, or maybe to a bad news. But then, you weren't prepared for either of them.
Try to remember the last time, when something totally different happened as per your perception, or the time your mind plan didn't work out? You were prepared for something, that didn't even exits. It can be something big, or just a canceled Goa plan. Can you recall? Can you relate?
Okay! So the matter is about thinking?
Well, No. Then? Is it about Expectations?
I think it's about, picturing or making a guess about the future. The curiosity. The impatience. But then that's natural, we ought to make stories in our head, for the sake of being prepared? OKAY! I remember Prevention is better than cure. For making a wild guess? How Wild? ;)
We fear certain happenings which are actually mishappenings.
It is the fear of something that must not happen, which makes us take the entire journey, from our past experiences - to our friend's sister's best friend's past experiences-to all our Google searches-to an article you once read and what not? Which finally ends up to our instincts. And we tend to say, "Bas sab acha hi ho"
What is the point of mentioning all the things? SEE What GOOGLE says about OVERTHINKING.
All it says is STOP!
HOW? I won't tell you 13 Simple ways to stop Thinking, but just one thing.
YOU NEVER KNOW.
So Why to think? Why put ample of energy and time to a wrong place? Why not have a cup of coffee, a fantastic movie, or your favourite sport.
Do Not Stress over anything, because you never know, where the next moment might take you to. To an absolutely wonderful outing, or maybe to a bad news. But then, you weren't prepared for either of them.
Every moment, every second is a new fresh input to your life, YOU NEVER KNOW, WHERE IT WILL LEAD YOU TO.
Create Positive vibes, be a lively soul. And trust me, maybe things won't fall at place, but your life will fall at peace.
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